Take this Waltz is a splendid contemporary portrayal of the
openness of sexual normativity. The vacuousness of marriage in the present,
with ample birth control and luxurious abundance that makes child-rearing no longer
a mandatory course of human life but a consumerist decision - like whether to
upgrade television sets - is seen in all of its decay.
Margot seems to have a friend more than a husband. They play
childish games together and act as bedtime companions. She is supportive of his
chicken recipes, but to an extent. She seeks more from her life and her hubby
is not giving it to her.
Conveniently, she finds some chemistry while on a writing trip to
Montreal. And even more conveniently, that excitement in her life follows her home.
The man who so seamlessly energizes her to the point she plans her day around
waking up to stalk her now-recognized neighbor, provides what little
significance she has in her life. It is a replacement for creating this
significance. She wants to write her own works for instance, and when cornered
about why she hasn't begun, she is left creating a diversion.
Her intrigue in the sexy neighbor is another such diversion in her
life. The chemistry they immediately amplify shows to her some sort of serendipity
in the entire ordeal. It does not matter to her that, through her wedding vows,
the life she leads is no longer completely solitary. Historically, a husband
and wife have been seen as creating a new life, with each a part of the
assembly. Thus, Margot's interest in another man takes no consideration of the
participation of the other member of her life.
Obviously not-and in general, the reprehensibility of infidelity
underlies the self-indulgence of the act. Technically, however, the film is
clever to preserve the matrimonial vows - yet the underlying self-indulgence
cannot be escaped by simple cultural normativity. Unsurprisingly, Margot
abandons a man who is making something with his life - a successful book,
something she is incapable of making herself - and decides to indulge.
The audacious sexual montage is perfect to encapsulate the ecstasy
of the indulgence. We see immediately after the ending of her marriage Margot
and the man engage in penetrating intercourse, which then follows into several
highlighted ménage-a-trois, accentuating the self-centered ness of her decision
making.
Wisely, the film does not contemplate on such sexual narcissism.
It uses the scenery to reveal how ephemeral her lust actually is. Instead of
looking to her husband for support in becoming a better woman, Margot follows
the cultural acceptance of women's liberation: one can disavow her marriage for
no sufficient reason - or for an absurd reason such as having a lustful fantasy
realized.
When matrimony was respected, men and women of course had sexual
urges towards other people. Yet the significance and indeed burden of marriage
has always been in the culturally perceived permanency, or sacredness, of the
vow. As contributory to the sacredness has been in the creation of the
family.
At present there is no natural tendency, neither natural order,
for the logic of marriage. It is treated as a custom, really the aftermath of a
large party, more than a formal institution. The meaning has been lost to the
point where the reality of a fantasy can destroy its establishment.
I commend the film for its realism; that in the end, childishness
cannot be a lifestyle.
Grade: A-